Bad Parenting 1: Mr Red Face

Thanks for sharing it, I read it and he's indeed not the pedo in this whole story. He still took many lines from the grooming manual tho. All his excuses and justifications are still a very toxic way to think, sometimes even undirectly shifting part of the blame on the victim, or trying to push her into saying specific things ("she started that convo", sending MULTIPLE messages about how pissed off he is that she didn't join him to game together despite her already apologizing, going to cry to her "am I like those pedos on YouTube ?" just so she can say "Nooo you're not !". That's not the kind of conversation you have with a child).

Good thing he stopped himself before doing any more damages, but he still really need to reflect on his actions and reasoning.

I'm an adult, a Sky player, and I have a younger sibling the same age as the victim. The type of friendship he had with that girl is innapropriate and crossed many boundaries.

People indeed need to focus on the other creeps who caused way more damages than him, but there's one detail that is bugging me. It was Anh's discord server, right ? If he witnessed all these explicitely predatory behaviors multiple times, why didn't he got rid of the pedos ? Why did he allowed them to stay admins ? Did I missed that context in the google docs or is this kind of information voluntarily left out ? Because if he had the power to ban them earlier, his case became way worse.